Why do men find it necessary to constantly contradict their feelings and actions when it comes to relationships? What is it that you (as the male population) think you are going to accomplish by putting on a false pretense that you have no feelings?
-Nikki
Hey what's up Nikki.
Before I begin, let me say what a good question. Men do have feelings for women obviously or we wouldn't be with them, however men are better in tuned to controlling their emotional parts. Men think of things on a logical level. When a girl say's she'll call me back in an hour and doesn't call back I don't get pissed or let her ruin my day, even if I really like the girl.
Girls on the other hand interpret numerous emotions if a guy doesn’t call back when he says he will. They assume, he has a girl with him, he doesn't love her, he's testing her, blah blah, the list goes on. So remember, men by creation are not very emotional. So when you think we don't have feelings, just remember its not that men don't have feelings it’s just were not that expressive with them. My personal belief is that men who understand their feelings on a logical level will better control their life.
Okay now on the basis of relationships. There are no tactics in a relationship. The relationship is the accumulation of the tactics. The relationship proved the tactics worked. When men are in a relationship, they don't need "tactics". If I’m seeing a girl for 2 months and having sex with her everyday I achieved my main goal. It’s to replicate. The only thing I won't do is be needy or display and characteristics that would make me a beta male. I just have the frame that I’m the man in the relationship; I make most choices, etc. I make it an alpha male frame from the start, which is attractive to EVERY woman. This prevents her from wanting to cheat on me, or feeling I’m not the one. Nonetheless, men are very logical and it is how they perceive you, than only then they can impose their emotions on you, nikki.
-Heartsin
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