Field Report

12.30.08

Jewel- Field Report

HB: Do you have a preferred saving card?

Me: No… I am regular price, there’s no discount’s for me, and it’s a flat $2,000 an hour

HB: lol =) no… I meant… a Jewel Osco card so… you can get your discounts =)

Me: I don’t have one…. now I suppose you want my number right? To “put me on a the mailing list…” =)

HB: lol =) I do need a number to give you the discounts, on your items =)

Me: Ok… fine… I will bite but promise me you wont copy my number down and try to trace my number, for an address, I can’t have any more girls sending me flowers and candies; I don’t have any room left, for more gifts

HB: Ok… =) I promise

(I give her the number)

Me: Yes…

HB: yes… what? =)

Me: yes I will go on a date with you

HB: =) I didn’t ask you that

Me: I just want to let you know… I am not that easy… I need to be spoiled with gifts and back rubs =)

HB: lol I am good at back rubs

Me: let me see your hands… Ya… I don’t think those little things will work =)

HB: what! =) (She hits me)

Me: Sorry… I need a girl that knows how to give a good back rub… I will talk to you later

HB: Are you serious not going to ask me for my number? =) (This was priceless; I turned around with a bag smile on my face)

Me: Ok… fine what’s your number =)

Overall an excellent vibing converation

-Heartsin

Opener

Hi Everyone!

I have been getting tons and tons of emails regarding "magic" openers. Although many men still believe that there is a "magic" phrase or gesture that will seduce any woman they encounter, I am here to tell you that, that is all BULLSHIT! There is no magic opener out there that will cause a girl fall to her knees and do the wild thing for you... the purpose of the opener is to “OPEN” (start a conversation) and that is it! However, there are many factors that take place BEFORE you even attempt to start a conversation... these factors may increase your chances of success with a beautiful woman:

1. Body Language- if you intrude into her personal space with your presence she will feel uncomfortable and walk away.

2. Appearance- if you look like an AVERAGE, sloppy guy (AFC) she will brush you off

3. Tonality- displaying needy tonality and not projecting is a big turn off for women.

These are the three most important things you should correct before you initiate a conversation with a woman.

Now these "must convey" traits are only summed up for you. There are many in-depth and scientific factors that play a role in these traits. I cannot stress how imperitave it is to seriously modify yourself according to the above mentioned traits, your fate in an interaction with a female depends on it....

-Heartsin

Emotions

Why do men find it necessary to constantly contradict their feelings and actions when it comes to relationships? What is it that you (as the male population) think you are going to accomplish by putting on a false pretense that you have no feelings? Is this part of the tactics of a pua? Is there a goal that you hope to obtain by doing this?

-Nikki

Hey what's up Nikki.

Before I begin, let me say what a good question. Men do have feelings for women obviously or we wouldn't be with them, however men are better in tuned to controlling their emotional parts. Men think of things on a logical level. When a girl say's she'll call me back in an hour and doesn't call back I don't get pissed or let her ruin my day, even if I really like the girl.

Girls on the other hand interpret numerous emotions if a guy doesn’t call back when he says he will. They assume, he has a girl with him, he doesn't love her, he's testing her, blah blah, the list goes on. So remember, men by creation are not very emotional. So when you think we don't have feelings, just remember its not that men don't have feelings it’s just were not that expressive with them. My personal belief is that men who understand their feelings on a logical level will better control their life.

Okay now on the basis of relationships. There are no tactics in a relationship. The relationship is the accumulation of the tactics. The relationship proved the tactics worked. When men are in a relationship, they don't need "tactics". If I’m seeing a girl for 2 months and having sex with her everyday I achieved my main goal. It’s to replicate. The only thing I won't do is be needy or display and characteristics that would make me a beta male. I just have the frame that I’m the man in the relationship; I make most choices, etc. I make it an alpha male frame from the start, which is attractive to EVERY woman. This prevents her from wanting to cheat on me, or feeling I’m not the one. Nonetheless, men are very logical and it is how they perceive you, than only then they can impose their emotions on you, nikki.

-Heartsin

AMOG

Q: I still need more work on my AMOGING. I cant seem to find any material related to the individuals i AMOG

What I recommend for you is read a book on humor or look for funny lines, write them down. For ex. “your cool bro, these guys like you, you don’t have to try so hard.” Or get a character for him. Who does he remind you of? Is he the Fez type from that seventies show? If he is when he starts to bust on you say “oh wait, fez has something to say, go for it”.

Avoiding it now will not help you socially develop. Next time you hear that little voice in the back of your head saying “on no he’s busting on me again, lets stay quiet or lets run away” Be consciously aware of that voice and say “Fuck you voice, I want to become good with people and women, lets learn from this so we become better next time at amog thing”

Field Report

Field Report 12.8.08

Plato’s Closet

The interaction started off like this:

When I started to check out HB remembered my face from some time ago and initiated the conversion by the following “ Aren’t you that guy that was in here like months ago trying to solve a riddle on a t-shirt?”

ME: Yes… lol

HB: I knew I remembered you =)

ME: Are you like a creepo or something =)

HB: No… lol I just remembered your face… Are you going to wear these and look at yourself in the mirror =). (I am buying women’s cloths at the time)

ME: No… actually I am a secret shopper and I am going to report you =) What’s your name?

HB: anonymous

ME: Ahhh… anonymous … Oh look there you are, right they’re, under the naughty list. (I was looking at a good and bad list that they had up for Xmas)

HB: No… lol that’s your name under there =)

ME: O… Ya… I see it… under the good-looking list =)

HB: Smiles

ME: Well I gtg give me your number! (Gives number and I leave)

See the thing is that I already established attraction right off the bat, because she ALREADY REMEMBERED me from six months ago. It was smooth sailing after that…

-HeartSin

Style

What are you wearing right now? Look at yourself. Do you wear normal clothes? What i mean by this is, if you were in a room with 20 other people, would you stand out by your clothes? If your answer is no then you definitely need to keep reading. Fashion is the easiest instant change you can do to yourself. Stop blending in!! Please. Life is too short to blend in. I'm not saying to dress like a clown. Dress sharp and trendy. I want people to notice you. Wear different colors like pink, orange, peach, etc. Cut down to a minimum the black, blue, white shirts. Thats so boring. Hb's run away from this, because every other guy that approached her is wearing that stupid black or blue shirt. Your different. You have an edge. Don't worry if it feels weird wearing this. It will, i promise you, but i also promise you that over time it will feel natural and normal. It will improve your game. Another thing wear clothes that fit. If your a medium, buy a medium, if your a large buy a large. Wearing big clothes looks messy and is a turnoff for most girls. Thats a fact. I'll help you out. Post a pic of you in your clothes and I'll tell you if your getting the point. Remember if you think your dressing cool, your probably not. So post pics and I'll tell you whats up, or send me an email at HeartSin@DiscountPUA.com

-Heartsin

Fitness

How does fitness play a roll in pickup? Well, I'm gonna tell you. It actually plays a role on 2 levels. Inner And outer game. It helps your inner game confidence wise. Being or looking generally fitter plays on your social conditioning which tell you on t.v. the fit guy gets the girl. You then feel that your almost on the level of one of those t.v. type guys and it boasts your confidence. Working out also increases your testosterone which increases your urges to mate with girls. This will definitely make you want to leave your house and sarge. Okay now outer game. Obviously looking fit gives you an advantage on guys who are unfit. I'm not going to lie about that. The fitter guy could possibly have an easier time getting the girls attracted to him based upon looks. The unfit guy just has to work harder to get a girl attracted to him. Perfect example, you go play basketball, your average build, no spectacular athlete. Thats you. You walk into the gym and see a 6'7 guy with freakish athleticism. The 6'7 guy is going to be a good ball player no matter how bad mechanics he has of the game. You on the other hand are an amazing shooter, dribbler, really skilled player. You can be just as good if not better then the 6'7 guy because of this. It's only harder for you, not impossible, only harder.

My thing to you is watch what you eat. Eat healthy, cut down on junk food, soda, fried foods, etc. Go to the gym start a workout schedule and do it. We can only use being fit to our advantage. Fight your urges to eat junk food and use your logical brain to tell you, if the food tastes too good its probably bad for you. Understand that eating junk food is your emotional brain telling you "McDonald's would taste so good right now" We are men, we control our emotions. Just tell that urge fuck you! and go eat a can of tuna and fruit.

If you guys want to know what foods are good and healthy, e-mail me but i will also shortly post an entire week eating routine from breakfast to dinner and it will include healthy snacks.

-Heartsin

Body Language

Hey Guys!

Check out this remarkable link for body language.

http://thegrowinglife.com/2008/04/ja...body-language/

Enjoy,

-Heartsin

Logic Vs. Emotion

Love I thought was an emotion but I found out this is not true… I noticed that there is a sex drive, falling in love drive and being in love drive. And what I found out was these drives are found in three separate parts of the brain. Module way of looking at the brain; sex drive is in one module, falling in love and being in love is in another module and like other things there are not completely boxed. Sex drive works all the time males and females are both constantly looking for a mate and are never turned off. Seeking a mate will go all the way throw there life.

Falling in love is not an emotion! It is a drive! This module is a completely different drive it uses different chemicals and uses them in different ways basically… what it does is identifies one practically mate.

Being in love is identified in a different part of the brain, different module and uses different chemicals basically gives you content, content for the mate you have chosen. So it is possible that the mate you have chosen loves you very much but is also on the look out for another mate. And could go off and do so trial mating but can still be in love with the spouse. Everybody is always on the look out for a mate. And when the brain finds a mate it will focus everything it can to get that mate, it’s like a hyper zoom. And when the mate has been got they need to be content with each other to raise the children.

-Heartsin

Phone Game

Q: I have a sticking point, which I would like to resolve. My sticking points are mainly dealing on the phone and trying to convey who I am on the phone it’s just a little different because I am actually not there to see her expressions and I cant change her thoughts as easy, as in person. Nonetheless I would like to improve my phone game and how to convey my personality on a second day phone call. Advice would be appreciated HeartSin


A:First off, don’t try to be funny. Just be you! And you will eventually find interesting conversations to talk about, may it be a childhood experience, to a day at work. It’s the way you project yourself that makes it funny or interesting. If you need additional help on vocal tonality, I would recommend Dave Shades E-Book; there’s a lot of remarkable information, which is stated all through out his book.

Secondly don’t put her on a pedestal and try to seek rapport with her; instead treat her like she was one of your best friends. You know... like hanging out with the buds on a Saturday night and not having a care in the world. That’s precisely how you should act with a girl! Don’t stop to think about what to say; instead be that guy that always likes having fun, just plan old fashion fun (Trust me this will get you far w/ a woman). Women seek excitement because there lives are monotone, mundane, and they seek out excitement and adventure in other individuals, such as you.

Remember that song “ Girls just wanta have fun”. Do this and your success rate should succeed tremendously.

Thanks,

-Heartsin

Suave PUA

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-Heartsin