Phone Game

Q: I have a sticking point, which I would like to resolve. My sticking points are mainly dealing on the phone and trying to convey who I am on the phone it’s just a little different because I am actually not there to see her expressions and I cant change her thoughts as easy, as in person. Nonetheless I would like to improve my phone game and how to convey my personality on a second day phone call. Advice would be appreciated HeartSin


A:First off, don’t try to be funny. Just be you! And you will eventually find interesting conversations to talk about, may it be a childhood experience, to a day at work. It’s the way you project yourself that makes it funny or interesting. If you need additional help on vocal tonality, I would recommend Dave Shades E-Book; there’s a lot of remarkable information, which is stated all through out his book.

Secondly don’t put her on a pedestal and try to seek rapport with her; instead treat her like she was one of your best friends. You know... like hanging out with the buds on a Saturday night and not having a care in the world. That’s precisely how you should act with a girl! Don’t stop to think about what to say; instead be that guy that always likes having fun, just plan old fashion fun (Trust me this will get you far w/ a woman). Women seek excitement because there lives are monotone, mundane, and they seek out excitement and adventure in other individuals, such as you.

Remember that song “ Girls just wanta have fun”. Do this and your success rate should succeed tremendously.

Thanks,

-Heartsin